Thursday 2 November 2017

First Stop - New York City (Part 1)


Our First Trip – New York City
   The boys were having a sleepover and, at drop-off, we decided to have a glass of wine and get better acquainted. It was during this evening that it was decided where our first adventure would take place – we were New York bound. The Big Apple, The Empire State, The City That Never Sleeps. If you can make it here….and we did!
   We were looking to have a nice vacation, but not spend a huge amount of money. Although we had some trepidation, as we didn’t know each other too well (yet) and New York hotel rooms are cozy, we were all in and the boys were hyped to be traveling together.
         One of the first things we do when planning our vacation is to hit the library for guide books. This gives us a good way to decide what should be on our list of things to do without costing anything. Deciding what part of the city to stay in was a bit overwhelming, as there are so many options. We eventually decided on the Times Square area, due to its central location and proximity to many of the sights on our list.  We chose a Holiday Inn Express due to its free breakfast (very important to us) and free wifi (very important to the boys). Once the trip was booked, we surprised the boys over dinner by giving them NYC tshirts, which we had to explain the significance of. We weren’t sure who was more excited about the trip, them or us…… nah, we knew we were more excited.
         Our next step was to research things to do and a less expensive way to do them. We decided to purchase City Passes for our trip, which we got through Costco for an even bigger savings. We liked the City Pass because not only did it give us free admission to the places we wanted to see, we could skip the lineups. Another advantage to this was that it was already paid for before we left so we could control our spending once on the trip. After some research, we decided the cheapest flights available were through Buffalo, which is only an hour across the border from us in Ontario, Canada. We packed our own snacks and drinks to save on airport and airline prices. We opted to park at the Buffalo Airport, using a coupon code we found online. For transportation to the hotel from the Airport we chose a shuttle but discovered that we shared this shuttle with quite a few people all staying at different hotels, ours being the last stop it made. On future trips, we made better decisions having this knowledge.
         The day before we left, in the midst of preparing and packing, we learned of the death of Robin Williams. We, like everyone else it seemed, were shocked and saddened by the news. This was not the last we would hear of this tragedy during our trip.

Next…… our vacation starts.

Sunday 8 October 2017

Welcome to Our Blog

Welcome to our blog! 
We would like to begin by telling you a bit about ourselves and what brought us to the blogging world.
We are two 40-something recently single moms of 12 year old boys. The friendship of our boys led us to find each other at a crossroads in our lives. Our marriages ended around the same time and we were both trying to find our bearings as single moms. Separately, we were both worried about how we would travel with our sons on our own. So we decided to start traveling together and.... a friendship was born. Since then, we have had many great adventures together, some close at home and some further afield. We have learned to navigate post-divorce life through trial and error while sometimes flying by the seat of our pants (turbulence included).
So on this spot, we will share what we've discovered about post-married life and how traveling as a single parent isn't as daunting as we first thought. We will share the tips and tricks we've found to make travels with tween boys easier (and hopefully cheaper). We will also share the daily highs and lows of raising those boys in today's society. Yes, life can be turbulent, but with us as your seat cushions, hopefully the ride will be a little smoother.
So, put your tray tables in the locked and upright positions and get ready for takeoff!